Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Dare To Be Different Part 3 :: God's Explanation of Separation 11/8/15


Part III
God’s Explanation of Separation

Intro: When preaching on the subject of separation, it is apparent that many people feel that the definition of separation is so varied and so diverse that it leaves it open to subjective reasoning.
This has always been the default behavior of mankind when left to himself.

·         Judges 21:25  In those days there was no king in Israel: every man did that which was right in his own eyes.

Some may say that this is the best way to deal with life and behavior issues, since the Bible says in Romans 14:12  “So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.”

The problem with that is the simple fact that doing what is right in our own eyes can get us in trouble!
·         Proverbs 12:15  The way of a fool is right in his own eyes: but he that hearkeneth unto counsel is wise.
·         Proverbs 21:2  Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the LORD pondereth the hearts.

Definition of PONDERETH: to regulate, measure, estimate, ponder, balance, make even, level, weigh, be equal, be weighed out, test, prove; estimate; to be made even or right, be adjusted to the standard

There must be a standard to which our heart can be pointed in order to avoid the confusion and discrepancy of every man doing that which is right in his own eyes.
But who sets that standard? 
The pastor?  The man of God preaches and teaches separation, or at least he’s supposed to!
The church?  As a pastor, I have leadership requirements and defined rules and boundaries in this church…
The Christian school? We have a very detailed handbook on what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior in the school…
The husband or the daddy? Is the man in the house the one that defines Biblical separation for the home?
The truth is obvious – God sets the standard.
·         Romans 3:4  God forbid: yea, let God be true, but every man a liar;
·         John 17:17  Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth.

We’d all be a lot better off if we’d stop listening to the authors of the bestsellers.
We’d all be a lot better off if we’d stop listening to the stars in the latest hit TV reality show.
We’d all be a lot better off if we’d stop listening to the pastors of the mega-churches.
We’d all be a lot better off if we’d stop listening to the editors of the Christian magazines.
We’d all be a lot better off if we’d stop listening to the opinions of the secular humanists.
We’d all be a lot better off if we’d stop listening to the reporters and commentators on the news networks.
We’d all be a lot better off if we’d stop listening to the politicians and pundits and late night TV comedians.
We’d all be a lot better off if we’d stop listening to the bloggers and tweeters and social media crowd.
We’d all be a lot better off if we’d stop listening to the rantings and ravings of bitter and angry preachers.
We’d all be a lot better off if we’d stop listening to the logic and reasoning of “enlightened” compromisers.

God’s explanation of Biblical separation is what we should be concerned with.
Doesn’t it make sense that since He’s the Originator of the Doctrine of Separation, that we ask Him what He thinks?
Since He’s the one that first practiced separation, and preached separation, why don’t we see what He says about it?

Notice three things about God’s Explanation of Separation:

                A. God’s Explanation is Simple

God’s explanation of Separation uses simple, easy-to-understand phrases.

1. Be ye not unequally yoked togethervs. 14 - This is the Premise of my Separation

2. Come out from among themvs. 17This is the Price of my Separation

3. Be ye separatevs. 17This is my Position of my Separation

4. Touch not the unclean thingvs. 17This is my Purity of my Separation

                B. God’s Explanation is Strict

Definition of SEPARATE (vs. 17) to mark off from others by boundaries, to limit, to separate; in a bad sense: to exclude as disreputable; in a good sense: to appoint, set apart for some purpose; to sever

NOTICE some of the implications of this word SEPARATE:
                1.  to mark off from others – this means I can’t always run with the crowd; I must be ready to stand alone

                2. by boundaries – I have guidelines and principles that they don’t have; I must live within these boundaries

                3. to limit – I will have to say NO to myself and to others.  I have liberty to OBEY; not liberty to DISOBEY.
Galatians 5:13  For, brethren, ye have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another.

                4. to exclude as disreputable – I may have to declare some activities and some people as disreputable
Ephesians 5:11  And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.
Even it makes me look like a stick in the mud, just because everybody else thinks it’s great doesn’t mean it is!

ILLUSTRATION: Just because the characters in Duck Dynasty pray over their meal, that doesn’t justify their WINERY!
·         Proverbs 20:1 Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging: and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise.

                5. to sever – I may have to cut some things out of my life and some people out of my life to be separate

 I John 2:15-17 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.  And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.

                C. God’s Explanation is Scriptural
The Bible is our Final Authority for all matters of faith and practice.
The simple doctrine of separation is made simpler by obeying the Word of God.
God has addressed every single aspect of our lives in His Word.

Once we understand the Principle of Separation, - vs. 14, 15
Once we understand the Purpose of Separation, - vs. 16
Once we understand the Promises of Separation – vs. 18
The Word of God will define the Particulars of Separation. – 7:1

·         II Corinthians 7:1 - Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.

NOTE: Agreeing with the Principle, and understanding the Purpose doesn’t make you Separated.
You must actually COME OUT – AND BE SEPARATE in order for it to work properly in your life.

There are people that agree that we must be separated, but they watch and listen to filth.
There are people that agree that we must all be holy and separate, but they dress immodest and seductively.
There are people that agree that we must all be pleasing to God, but they insist on pleasing themselves.

The Bible is clear: Separation isn’t just about matters of the heart.
Separation isn’t just about our attitude or our spirit.
Separation involves a purging of all filthiness of the flesh AND spirit. – 7:1

God commands us to PERFECT HOLINESS.
He doesn’t command us to perfect liberty in Christ.
He doesn’t command us to perfect our rights as a believer.
He doesn’t command us to perfect our explanation of the times.
He doesn’t command us to perfect our excuses for living like the world.
He doesn’t command us to perfect our performance as double-minded hypocrites.
He commands us to PERFECT HOLINESS!

Definition of PERFECTING: to bring to an end, accomplish, perfect, execute, complete; to take upon one’s self;  to make an end for one’s self; to leave off; to appoint to, impose upon

Bottom Line: If our practices are not lining up with simple Bible principles, we aren’t separated.
If our lifestyle is conducive to the activities of the world, and doesn’t set us apart from them, we aren’t separated.
If we aren’t constantly cleansing ourselves of all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, we aren’t separated.

If our daily goal and mindset isn’t perfecting holiness in the fear of God, we aren’t separated.